I can offer nothing helpful -- I have the opposite problem, as my feet are nearly flat, and being of the lesbian persuasion, my footwear tends to reflect that in its comfort-over-cuteness factor. (I do love my Dansko clogs -- size 37, actually -- and think they are cute) I can relate to the manky feet business, though: I'm missing a bone in both feet (the same bone), so my toes look bizarre. Symmetrical, but bizarre.

Despite that, I applaud your efforts in fighting the negativity of the world with shoes. Wouldn't it be wonderful if governments did it that way too?

World peace through wedge heels...