It makes perfect sense that you would always flub in front of your mom; in general, people perform better in front of a neutral or slightly hostile audience than a friendly one--even if they feel more comfortable with friends and family. I think that makes the whole concrit point: if the consensus is that it's not okay to criticize so that we all feel 'safe,' then the writing suffers. And I believe furiosity already made the point that whatever else it may be, LJ is a public forum on the internet, not your living room. So it's not 'safe' anyway.
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Date: 2010-01-28 04:39 pm (UTC)