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blamebrampton ([personal profile] blamebrampton) wrote2010-09-01 07:27 pm

LJ changes bring LJ musings ...

For my part, I'm not too perturbed about the Facebook and Twitter things, since a couple of my posts went a little viral over the last two years and exactly nothing bad happened as a result. But then, I live in the happy place of having no kids, working as a creative where everyone already thinks I am a little mad, not writing actual porn, and not being able to remember when my last flocked post was, because this is not the place where I post personal stuff.

So I won't be making a list of grumbles about what I'll do if ... because it doesn't really affect me.

But I still think LJ has made a major miscalculation. They've taken a step in the Google/Facebook direction, where the underlying sentiment is that if you want something to be private, it shouldn't be on the internet. I believe that LJ is misreading itself here. For every person who uses their LJ to communicate publicly, there is at least one who uses it to communicate privately. So while the first type of user is like me, where stories, ideas, rants and sometimes just rubbish form the content of posts, the second type of user is someone who is hoping to speak to a small group of people. They may be people that he or she knows and who are far away or busy, so LJ provides a useful forum, or perhaps they are looking for new people who can talk to them and make them feel less alone, which is something that each and every one of us has done at some point in our lives and not everyone has the luxury of a large family or peer group to find those people in.

So for those private people, what LJ has done here is said that your desires are less important than the desires of those who comment on your posts. Now there is a case to be made that comments made on an LJ belong to the commenter and not the poster (indeed, it's the reason I did not import comments to Dreamwidth when I copied much of my LJ over), but picking them up and taking them outside is like you making a phonecall in the middle of a private conversation we're having at my house, so that suddenly the conversation is you, me, and the West Dapto Basketball Team, which is not what I was expecting when I invited you round for a private chat about whether or not your herbal deodorant was working.

And again, when I say that, it's a joke, but for people who are dealing with serious issues, it's not.

For some people I know of on LJ, there are very serious issues indeed. I know of people who have had fandom issues cause them grief in everything from their marriages to working with children. The solution to that in the past has been to make their LJs wholly private, but this new setting removes that certainty of privacy from their hands to the hands of anyone they allow to comment on their posts, because any comment can include a quote, and now go immediately outside the flock.

It is true that in the past people could copy and paste from behind flock anyway, but it was not as easy, and not as certain to have come from the original poster.

So now we have a system where people are reliant on others not to be twats. Which I must say is often a safe thing to rely on, the vast majority of people being actually quite decent*. But in battles of child custody, or in serious investigations into the backgrounds of those wanting to work in many agencies, the rules are not the same.

Now it may be that I have the wrong end of the stick and that somewhere in the chaos that is LJ settings is a box marked: Hide me from Facebook and Twitter, for I care not for them! But I canna find it if it's there.

I do believe that it is something LJ will fix, because they seem to not be complete bastards (unlike Facebook), but I also believe it is something they should have not broken in the first place, and which a small amount of thought would have kept whole.


* In three years on LJ I seem to have attracted about three people who seem to hate me, which at one a year is not actually bad. It appears to bring them great joy. Bless!


[identity profile] teganscrush.livejournal.com 2010-09-01 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I trust my current friends list to not go off and re-post,tweet or fb my stuff, but I worry that this will force some people to go into hiding; to stop posting personal things and opinions and retreat into a world of memes and youtube videos. (Not that those are bad, mind you, but I like to know about the real issues of people on my flist, you know?)

There was a time, about two years ago or so where god forbid that this option existed, cause I had haters, and probably still do, but hopefully we're all too mature and busy to spend time doing nasty things to each other. But this is a new day, new LJ and so now I feel fine with the people I let see me.

I personally find it reprehensible that potential and current employers find it acceptable to google their employees, find their fbs and twitters and base one's prospective and/or continued employment on such things. Granted, it's common sense, I think, to not post remarks such as "I work at ABC Company in Des Moines, Iowa, and my boss is a fan of S&M mouse-porn," but still, to have someone make a decision on you because you twitter, "Whoo, I like me some Molson!" seems pretty stupid to me.

Okay, I digress. And I always ramble in your LJ!
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[identity profile] meredyth-13.livejournal.com 2010-09-01 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
You know, that didn't actually HELP my mental imaging problem.

[identity profile] kayoko.livejournal.com 2010-09-02 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
I think you make a great point about LJ trying to take the Google/Facebook approach to privacy. In my opinion, LJ's been feeling inadequate about itself and believe that Facebook/Twitter would bring new blood. It's time LJ accepts that it's a small niche.

[identity profile] enchanted-jae.livejournal.com 2010-09-02 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
I cannot imagine how small and bitter someone must be to have a hate for you. You are awesome!

[identity profile] mabonwitch.livejournal.com 2010-09-02 04:46 am (UTC)(link)
*sings along* ...Why can't I remember the word for "disembowel"?

[identity profile] blamebrampton.livejournal.com 2010-09-02 05:49 am (UTC)(link)
They might be really cool and nice but just have a deep and abiding loathing for English satirists, in much the same vein that I cannot stand avocados, but acknowledge they are generally seen as brilliant. My theory is that I am writing well if it makes some people hate what I say, so I'm fine with it.

But you are HUGELY lovely to say so, and coming from you, who truly knows the awesome, I am beaming at such a lovely compliment!

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_inbetween_/ 2010-09-03 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Do those three hate you for different things? I'm not so much interested in names as causes.

Oh yeah, ignoring the main issue, since I wish most people were decent but know that money makes the world go round and everything unbroken has to be fixed.

[identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com 2010-09-09 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
It's OK - pingback isn't a real word either.

[identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com 2010-09-09 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Strangely, I'm much more comfortable with it being owned by the Russian Mafia than by Google.

[identity profile] drbunsen.livejournal.com 2010-09-09 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Permission to link this from my own journal?

[identity profile] blamebrampton.livejournal.com 2010-09-09 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Absolutely. For all public entries that do not make me look like a complete maniac, that's always fine (for the ones that do, my apologies in advance).

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