Goodness, that took a while ...
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That last month has been interesting. As is usually the case, after something very stressful, I fell over in a heap with flu. The annoying sort where one is febrile, knackered and filled with joint pain rather than the snotty manky kind where at least one is so obviously ill that one receives sympathy from all around. The obvious downside to this is that typing has been painful all month, the ridiculous downside is that I have spent many evenings languishing on the sofa with a blanket clutched to my bosom, apparently about to sing a charming aria regarding imminent death from tuberculosis and cold hands. Bloody Puccini.
That's not the only thing that's been keeping me from typing, there's this, too:

We bit the bullet and went to the cat pound. There we looked at many little cats who all performed great feats of cuteness in a bid to have us choose them. In the corner was a little black and white cat who looked at us, sniffed disdainfully, and went back to bathing in her little patch of sunlight. I picked her up; she was so soft and small. She nestled against me and purred for a moment. The pound woman said "Oh yes, that's Cookie, she's been here for five months, I don't know why no one wants her. She had kittens that were all adopted, and a best friend who was adopted, but she is always left behind."
I looked at her, and she looked back at me with a cat expression that very clearly said "Yeah, you feel sorry for me, but I know you will go away and forget about me." I put her back down and she went back to sunbathing, ignoring us while the other kitties continued trying to make us love them.
Naturally I decided she must be mine.
J and I went away to think about it for a day or two, the next day I rang back and paid for Cookie's desexing and put her on reserve. We went to pick her up the following weekend. I was worried about J, because it was too soon in many ways, but I thought that such a low-key, sweet and pretty little cat might be just what he needed to take his mind of Min.
We went to pick her up the following weekend, and J had several damp-eyed Min moments along the way. They brought Cookie out to us and she was very shy and diffident. I had a vague worry that I had chosen a feeble cat. We opened the little cat flap on the top of the carrier, she slinkied her way out of the hole, which is only just large enough to stick an adult hand through. Then she sat on top of the carrier, squinted at us and began to purr. Her domination of the Brammers household began at that moment.
Once home, she sat under the sofa for a bit, then climbed out to sit on first me, then J. We were won over fully by then. That night she played with some of her toys, quietly, and then came and slept on the edge of the bed for a while. The next morning we heard her running up and down the hall, but when we finally rose from bed, she was nowhere to be seen. We decided she must be hiding, so left her to herself for a while, but after three hours we began looking for her.
Not under the sofa, not under either bed, not nestled in the spare bed duvet, not snuggled in the fabric store in the craft room. We could hear the odd little jingle of her bell (I normally only bell outside cats (well, never Min, she'd have eaten it), but thought it would be a good plan for her first few days inside). After a few more hours of fruitless searching, I told J that the bell sounded as though it was coming from the chimney.
He agreed, despite the fact that it the chimney is fronted by one of those old-fashioned fireplaces that have a little gate to the chimney, it was only open a crack, but then, she is a very small cat. J took my camera and shot photographs upwards and downwards, not a sign. We tore the study apart searching for her.
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deense arrived, I apologised for not being able to introduce her to the new cat, and expressed some concern that she had been missing for seven hours and apparently I had managed to kill two cats within the one month. Hurrah. Deense talked me down off the cat-killing ledge, and made me watch stupid telly.
An hour later, I heard a jingle jingle. J came out with Cookie in his arms. Apparently she had been hiding in the soot at the bottom of the chimney and had stuck her little face out of the crack in the gate a moment before, with a chirpy miaow. There was great joy at the discovery.
The following week fell into a quick pattern, Cookie would wake us up to play with her a little earlier than our normal time, then we would go to work, then we would come home and she would fall upon us with glee demanding we play for an hour or two. When I went to write, she would sit on the laptop, which is apparently a heated cat bed, who knew? After two days of this, J turned to me and said: "We need to get a cat for the cat."
The following weekend we went to another pound, and looked at several cats. Most of them were too pale to live outside at all (and in the summer, we want them to be outside in the daytime, because our house is small and our garden is perfect for cats), the ones who weren't were haters of other cats.
We were perplexed; so many kitties, yet none perfect. There were a few cages in the adult cat area that were filled with older kittens, around four months old. J wandered over to one and found a little tortiseshell girl kitten that was being swiped to one side by her rambunctious brothers. He scooped her up for a quick pat, she scampered up onto his shoulder and nestled against his neck, then began to groom his hair.
And that was how Monster came to live with us. And yes, J named her, he is so terribly funny. They amuse each other endlessly and are unbelievably distracting for us. We still miss Min, we know that Min would have eaten them, but they are bringing smiles into the house, and we know that we rescued Cookie from a certain and imminent death, so that's cheering.
leochi's cat and Draco drawings have been making me smile of late, but I am still miles behind on commenting on everything. I am also miles behind on reading Worldcup. I think that I am doomed to remain so. I have a few things I wanted to talk about on the commenting palaver, but that involves me having energy enough to do so. Right now, it is time to return to the blanky and the kitties.
That's not the only thing that's been keeping me from typing, there's this, too:

We bit the bullet and went to the cat pound. There we looked at many little cats who all performed great feats of cuteness in a bid to have us choose them. In the corner was a little black and white cat who looked at us, sniffed disdainfully, and went back to bathing in her little patch of sunlight. I picked her up; she was so soft and small. She nestled against me and purred for a moment. The pound woman said "Oh yes, that's Cookie, she's been here for five months, I don't know why no one wants her. She had kittens that were all adopted, and a best friend who was adopted, but she is always left behind."
I looked at her, and she looked back at me with a cat expression that very clearly said "Yeah, you feel sorry for me, but I know you will go away and forget about me." I put her back down and she went back to sunbathing, ignoring us while the other kitties continued trying to make us love them.
Naturally I decided she must be mine.
J and I went away to think about it for a day or two, the next day I rang back and paid for Cookie's desexing and put her on reserve. We went to pick her up the following weekend. I was worried about J, because it was too soon in many ways, but I thought that such a low-key, sweet and pretty little cat might be just what he needed to take his mind of Min.
We went to pick her up the following weekend, and J had several damp-eyed Min moments along the way. They brought Cookie out to us and she was very shy and diffident. I had a vague worry that I had chosen a feeble cat. We opened the little cat flap on the top of the carrier, she slinkied her way out of the hole, which is only just large enough to stick an adult hand through. Then she sat on top of the carrier, squinted at us and began to purr. Her domination of the Brammers household began at that moment.
Once home, she sat under the sofa for a bit, then climbed out to sit on first me, then J. We were won over fully by then. That night she played with some of her toys, quietly, and then came and slept on the edge of the bed for a while. The next morning we heard her running up and down the hall, but when we finally rose from bed, she was nowhere to be seen. We decided she must be hiding, so left her to herself for a while, but after three hours we began looking for her.
Not under the sofa, not under either bed, not nestled in the spare bed duvet, not snuggled in the fabric store in the craft room. We could hear the odd little jingle of her bell (I normally only bell outside cats (well, never Min, she'd have eaten it), but thought it would be a good plan for her first few days inside). After a few more hours of fruitless searching, I told J that the bell sounded as though it was coming from the chimney.
He agreed, despite the fact that it the chimney is fronted by one of those old-fashioned fireplaces that have a little gate to the chimney, it was only open a crack, but then, she is a very small cat. J took my camera and shot photographs upwards and downwards, not a sign. We tore the study apart searching for her.
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An hour later, I heard a jingle jingle. J came out with Cookie in his arms. Apparently she had been hiding in the soot at the bottom of the chimney and had stuck her little face out of the crack in the gate a moment before, with a chirpy miaow. There was great joy at the discovery.
The following week fell into a quick pattern, Cookie would wake us up to play with her a little earlier than our normal time, then we would go to work, then we would come home and she would fall upon us with glee demanding we play for an hour or two. When I went to write, she would sit on the laptop, which is apparently a heated cat bed, who knew? After two days of this, J turned to me and said: "We need to get a cat for the cat."
The following weekend we went to another pound, and looked at several cats. Most of them were too pale to live outside at all (and in the summer, we want them to be outside in the daytime, because our house is small and our garden is perfect for cats), the ones who weren't were haters of other cats.
We were perplexed; so many kitties, yet none perfect. There were a few cages in the adult cat area that were filled with older kittens, around four months old. J wandered over to one and found a little tortiseshell girl kitten that was being swiped to one side by her rambunctious brothers. He scooped her up for a quick pat, she scampered up onto his shoulder and nestled against his neck, then began to groom his hair.
And that was how Monster came to live with us. And yes, J named her, he is so terribly funny. They amuse each other endlessly and are unbelievably distracting for us. We still miss Min, we know that Min would have eaten them, but they are bringing smiles into the house, and we know that we rescued Cookie from a certain and imminent death, so that's cheering.
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Date: 2008-04-20 01:48 pm (UTC)So sorry you've been ill, darling. *sends healing thoughts*
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:10 pm (UTC)The kitties are both genuinely happy, it's rather endearing, we haven;t even had to bribe them with salmon yet!
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:32 pm (UTC)Glad the kitties are amusing each other. Two are better than one. See why I want twins? :)
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:43 pm (UTC)I completely see why you want twins, though the little kitties are easier to carry about than babies, at 2kg each they are one stomping newborn between them.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:49 pm (UTC)I didn't know you did ballet! I took it as a child and escaped before I was seriously injured. Actually, I stopped because I have next to no coordination. :)
Are you feeling better now? I probably won't be able to chat right now as husband is waiting for me to keep him company, but I wanted to check in and say hello anyway.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:52 pm (UTC)Have a lovely day with the husband! Work on those babies!
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Date: 2008-04-20 01:49 pm (UTC)My advice to you is don't try to catch up with fandom. Let your friends tell you which fics to read and leave it at that. Much as you'd love to be WonderWoman (and probably do in fact own a pair of spankly knickers) at your ripe old age it's probably best to aim low and thus save much disappointment.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:13 pm (UTC)I'm trying to read my way through worldcup, have I missed anything else that I shouldn't have? Art, too. I think I am up to date on viewing leochi's, if miles behind in commenting ...
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Date: 2008-04-21 10:00 am (UTC)Wonderful piece. It's one that will stay with you long after many other fics have merged together.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:02 pm (UTC)Hope to see you all well sooon!
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:07 pm (UTC)They are adorable, and they bonded in exactly three seconds. We were all prepared to do the whole staged introduction thing, and then they started licking each other through the bars of the cat carrier. The cuteness verges on appalling.
I think the brain is coming out of its fog; I've managed a few worldcup comments, and wrote two whole paragraphs of new fic. I *meant* to finish Fathers the other weekend, but couldn't stay awake long enough to read all the way through what I had written so far. More orange juice for me!
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Date: 2008-04-20 04:53 pm (UTC)Now that's a way to add additional confusion to the standard set of multiple personae around here! *is amused*.
I'm sorry to hear you've been unwell, and hope you feel better soon. The new kitties sound adorable, and I'm sure Min would be glad to know the two of you are being properly
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Date: 2008-04-21 11:59 am (UTC)I am sure that regular sleep and healthy homecooking would see me well in a week. Sadly ... And the girls are WONDERFUL, you have to come and meet them, oh the hilarity!
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:17 pm (UTC)Starting to feel better, I just need to get my energy back.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:19 pm (UTC)Best of luck with both cats.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:29 pm (UTC)Cookie has started to come out of her shyness; I had two young friends over to visit on Friday night and she played with them and Monster for half an hour, today there were five people here and she cheerfully jumped around after the feathery toy on an elastic that we were tossing to each other. Monster is a total strumpet for affection, which makes sense since her whole life was at the cat protection society, where the kittens are played with regularly.
I hope Pimpo is fully recovered soon!
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:48 pm (UTC)I hope you shake your fever soon, my dear. Take care.
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Date: 2008-04-20 02:55 pm (UTC)In happy news, J has decided that he cannot be arsed going to Wellington for that weekend, which opens up my schedule somewhat! A midweek Melbourne jaunt beckons!
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Date: 2008-04-20 05:27 pm (UTC)Peace,
Bubba
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Date: 2008-04-21 12:23 pm (UTC)I'm feeling chirpier, sure that I'll be more energetic any day now. Thanks for also being a cat person! And some hugs in your direction!
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Date: 2008-04-20 06:34 pm (UTC)Cookie and Monsters are lucky kitties; how nice you got a cat for your cat--many people don't realize that this is the best thing you can do for them. I'm sure you'll have years of pleasure while they deign to live with you and J. ♥
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Date: 2008-04-21 12:35 pm (UTC)We did at first think that Cookie might be a solitary cat, as she was quite standoffish with the others at her pound. But when she seemed to be a bit bored, I rang up her carers and they told me that she had had a best friend that had been adopted without her. So we went searching for someone who would be happy with all three of us, and lucked out completely with Monny. We're lucky to have found them!
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Date: 2008-04-20 06:35 pm (UTC)I hope you are feeling better soon. World Cup has been pretty wicked. There are definitely a few stand-outs amongst the stories and the artwork has been awesome, even when not my personal cup of tea. I haven't been commenting though - too much pressure!
Ben is sick again and I feel it coming on for me too. No surprise there. He started daycare last Monday and was the only kid without a super snotty nose. By Friday, he had a super snotty nose. *sighs*
Anyway, rest, feel better, snuggle kitties, and come back to us when you have the energy - we miss you!
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Date: 2008-04-21 04:26 pm (UTC)You should think about a cat when Ben is a little older, many reputable studies have shown that a mix of cat and dog is the ideal way to build up child immunities while they are young, giving you an allergy- and asthma-free young person. It's practically a requirement ;-)
I will catch up with WC. Eventually ...
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Date: 2008-04-20 11:35 pm (UTC)That sounds like my idea of bliss. :) And the kitties sound adorable. Cookie's pic is beautiful. *pets her and Monster*
My cat Bunnie (she's a Manx ^.^ ) loves to sleep on my bed. When she was a kitten, she lived inside for a few months. Now she's an outside cat, and whenever we open the door, she darts inside and looks around like "Well, it's my house, isn't it?" :D
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Date: 2008-04-21 04:30 pm (UTC)Bunnie sounds wonderful. And she has exactly the right attitude!
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Date: 2008-04-21 12:10 am (UTC)I'm really glad to hear you got a tortie. I personally love them, but they're the hardest color to get adopted because most people think they're ugly. I once had a tortie named Rick James. No one ever called her just "Rick" or "James", she was "Rick James". Darling, darling cat. Where I lived you pretty much HAD to have outdoor cats to keep the mice from sneaking out of the woods into the house. An unfortunate truth is that outdoor cats don't tend to live as long as indoor cats.
I was sad to hear about Min, but I'm glad to see two shelter cats given a good home :)
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Date: 2008-04-21 04:34 pm (UTC)Yes, we were nervous about another tortie, because I thought J would wibble too much, but Mon's colouring is different enough to Min's, even if her nickname isn't. I think torties are lovely, and they are usually so interesting, too. I'm yet to meet a personality-free one.
Our version of outdoor cat is lazing away the summer in the garden, with access to the laundry if the weather blows in (let us not forget the cat futon on the verandah at the front), so it's fairly cushy. So far their one outdoor experience has seen Cookie calmly eat the cat grass (which is what I planted it for), and Monster sit crouched on a paver looking at the sky with an expression of "What the hell have you done with the ceiling?!"
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Date: 2008-04-21 01:29 am (UTC)Also, that's the third cookiemonster reference to pop up in my life today. What could the universe be telling me?
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Date: 2008-04-21 04:08 am (UTC)Congratulations on your new family members, and I'm glad you're feeling better.
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Date: 2008-04-22 09:25 am (UTC)Thank you, and the improvements continue!
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Date: 2008-04-21 05:35 am (UTC)I hope the evol stress lurgy is finally losing the fight - hitting high C is never fun with only 20% lung capacity.
Your kitties are beautiful - and I think have found themselves a wonderful home. How is the Min ghost going? is she still leaping out at them from dark places?
*hugs and sends kitty love*
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Date: 2008-04-22 02:06 pm (UTC)* At some point between 4 and 7am, when we are guaranteed to be asleep, the kitties will run up and down the hall as though being chased by something invisible. Every night.
* On her first visit to the kitchen, Monster looked at the kibble in her bowl, then looked at the cupboard where the tinned salmon is kept, and bleated.
* As the new resident tortiseshell, Monnie drinks constantly from the bucket that collects the recycled shower water, just as Min did.
* Faced with three accessible open drawers, all filled with alluring soft things, both cats chose to curl up in Minnie's towel drawer, a longtime favourite.
* On their only outside visit so far (in harnesses, because it's too close to the rail and we are a wee bit neurotic), Cookie went straight to the Min spot in the garden bed, then began to eat Min's favourite plants.
Spooky, I tell you!
GO Kai and Loki! Humans do love the kitty madness, even when we pretend to be wanting you to hush. And yes, the lurgy is subsiding. Off to Adelaide this weekend, then to sort out dates for Melbourne and flights to NZ!
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Date: 2008-04-22 11:30 pm (UTC)Yayes for Melb dates - and for victory over the lurgy. Seems a lot of folk on my flist are either ill or feeling blue lately (self included) - bad net viruses I'm blaming.
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Date: 2008-04-21 11:58 am (UTC)i'm so pleased you have newe little furballs around your house. [*snuggles*]
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Date: 2008-04-22 07:41 pm (UTC)Hope you're feeling better.